Relationship motivation

Posted: January 24, 2015 in Uncategorized
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I have seen a lot of lonely people this weekend. They’re at a sex convention looking for someone or something to help them escape their loneliness. They might even be able to do that, for a time.

I do have moments of loneliness, but it’s not a feeling I really identify with overall anymore. I am blessed to have amazing friends and amazing children. I also am quite ok with my own company. The latter is actually quite important.

One day I hope to be in a relationship again, but it’s not because I want that relationship to cure my loneliness. It’s because I want to share my experiences, my thoughts and my feelings with someone. Obviously I can do that with my friends, but the conversations and the connection is different with someone your interested in or dating or married to.

There is a big difference between being in a relationship with someone because you want them to fix you, verses walk along side you. The first will never work. The second will be a journey of ups and downs. On the outside it my look similar but the inside motivation is completely different and time will show the insides true colours.


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